I brought up this question after reading someone's blog and it seems a good opening for the stuff i'm thinking of putting on my blog recently. and i'd very like to hear any of my friends to tell me what they think. so the question for today is, "why God made us as emotional creatures that always need to find acceptance and dependency from one another, but also gave us power to like and dislike? wouldn't it be easier if we were made as loving everything/everyone in this world then we could get acceptance from anywhere/anyone?"

this should be a familiar scene to all of you, that those who you're attracted to wouldn't come to you or always get you a sad ending, but those who you're not interested in would always hit on you or be willing to take care of you forever. so the problem is not that you can't find emotional dependency, but that you can't find someone who fits your critiria to commit your emotion to. why would we still feel lonely even if we got friends around? why would we feel not being loved even if we knew families/friends/admirers love us? right, we want that dream guy/girl to come to us, to love us, to be with us, only that dream one.

so why do we need to find that dream one for the whole life? why can't we feel happy to be with any one in opposite sex? why did He give us emotions and desires but also judgement and selectivity? is that part of the meaning of existence that to spend the whole life to search for the right half? but what's the point of doing it?

waiting for comments.

the question for next time would be, how men and women be good friends without emotional involved? think about your experience and i'll tell you mine in next post.