I Love New York!

We are back from new york!

New york city hadn't attracted me that much until this trip. Perhaps it's nearly summer time that the weather is nicer and hotter, or perhaps i missed city life, nyc reminded me taipei the speed i used to walk and live on. The heat got me dizzy since the sec i went out from the buildings just like the way in taipei, the apartment buildings covered up half of the sky just like the way in taipei, the street stands took over the sidewalks in shopping areas just like the way in taipei, the yellow cabs ran crazily all over the whole city just like the way in taipei, the restaurants and entertainment sat in every corner just like the way in taipei, and the neon lights were always on 24-7-365 just like the way in taipei. i couldn't help imagining how wonderful the life would be if i had chance to live in nyc.

Until i sensed i was holding my bf's hand. It's a big hand which always protects me from harms and offers me security and happiness. And that's the reason i'm here. Then i realized nyc dream is only for single people or certain characteristics of groups like those women in sex & the city, those who can fully enjoy and take advantages of what nyc offers, no matter they're expensive designer shoes, admirable jobs, or crazy night fun. Then i found i cared more about whether there's big space, safe neighborhood, or natural environment for kids to play and run, instead of cool pubs, fun events, stylish shops, or good-looking guys.

i guess i'll just save nyc for my next life.

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It was a great trip and also a great surprise to some people from my bf's families. He didn't inform any of them his coming so we kept getting those stunning faces when he showed up. And of course they loved to see him even tho it was unexpected. The sister got an apple laptop as her bday gift, the little cousins got to beat up their big bro with tons of various quizzes, the aunt got to care for her nephew & niece again with delicious home food, and i got to meet his beloved sister (finally) and some of his family members in new jersey (unexpected to me as well).

Apart from those young people's hangouts, i had a great afternoon playing with his cousins and enjoying the aunt's warm hospitality.

Blah Blah Blah Blah....

The second month passed.

Just like all the couples, we quarreled sometimes, we argued sometimes, we didn't listen to each other occasionally, and we got mad with each other once in a while.

He still doesn't allow me to eat Mc Donald's, i still stop him buying unnecessary stuff only because it's cool. He still owns remote control, i'm still against tv. We still laugh at each other's fat belly, but still are too lazy to go to gym regularly. We still work on our laptops separately, but still stay close to each other all the time.

He's done pretty well in his job, and i've been idling at home. He goes to work in early morning, and i also get up at same time for having breakfast with him. He's been curious of how i spend my day, and i could only tell him time goes too fast for me to finish my things everyday. He makes good food, and i'm learning to cook better.

Giving up old single life style is not easy, but *symbiouning two's life styles is even harder. Fairy tales or romance fictions always only end up with "and they live happily ever after", but they never tell how and what happens afterwards in their "happy life". Because they love each other so much so nothing unhappy would happen? Because they're prince and princess and never have to worry about money or food? Because it's not writer's business you curious readers get to figure it out yourselves?

(*symbioun- to live together in a mutually beneficial relationship)

Don't get me wrong i'm not saying we don't live together happily, or i have any doubt about my bf. I'm pretty enjoying in our lives, and he is still the best and that right one to me. It's just that life sometimes can be tough, in which we might see each other as pain in the ass and wonder if one day in the future we would get hurt or one hurts the other unexpectedly. Good thing is, at the moment we chose to learn something from each quarrel, and try to find balance between our conflicts and manage it. When you're a grown-up it gets harder to change yourself, but we'd do our best to try, only for our significant one.

I'm going to be an officially married woman in the end of June. I still don't know what it means and how it's gonna change my current life except for no more cute guy pickups. For that reason i think i need a crazy hens party but all my girl friends are not here.... Arrr......**>_<** Can i postpone the party until i go back to taiwan?


*For all my girl friends...
Being with a right person would make you feel that everything you're doing with him seems to go unexpectedly smoothly or with lucks. You would sense the difference with going out with wrong guys, and feel much more comfortable to be yourself. You will definitely find that guy one day, as long as you don't keep sticking on wrong ones nor be afraid of pursuing potential ones. So stop compromising all the time to adapt to guys or you will have to keep compromising for the rest of your life. Wish you all find your Mr. Right soon!:)

Craziness

This is what happened when you live in US for over 2 months...



(BG music: FLCL sound track)

The Baby- Part 2

(The article is forwarded.)

A newborn's conversation with God...

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"

God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."

The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."

God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."

Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"

God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."

"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?" God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."

"Who will protect me?" God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."

"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name.

"God said, "You will simply call her, "Mom."

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When she was 4 days old...

- Can I have milk now?

- Shiiiih... Let me see how to get out of here....

- I just wanted o play with my toes...

- Yeah... I remember this chest....

- Where is the baby...? Here is the baby!!

- Ahahwalalalala~~~ come on sing with me~~~

The Baby

Here're the pix of my beautiful little niece:

Girl Rocks!

May 9, 2007 8am, my little niece was born!

She's the first baby in my direct family, she is my younger brother's first child.

She is a 3kg big baby, she was caesarean born.

She was supposed to come out in 2 weeks, she turned out to be a Taurus girl.

She's very cute even since the 1 min she's born, according to her daddy.

The whole family is very happy, as well as her 84 yr old great grandmom.

I will try to get the photos soon, and post up to share with you guys.

.......Oh my god! I'm an Aunt now!:D