<Sick of Dating Games!>

I know i might sound very cynical today. but what makes me cynical is the attitude from the people around me toward dating or relationship. tell me these are only for sweeping away the loneliness when friends are away from us, when we sit at home along at night, when we feel like being held into sleep, when we need some physical excitement, or when we need someone to go into a marriage with. tell me love is an old fashion that no one really cares about nowadays.

so what's your problem and mine?? everyone told me he/she doesn't think his/her date is what he/she wants, but still goes out with her/him and then few weeks later comes back to complain his/her date to me with judgment or depression. if you don't like that person why do you go out dating with him/her? if you like that person why don't you spend sometime getting to know him/her more and try to compromize a bit or change your thoughts or standard a bit? why don't you try to love someone who you choose to date with but doesn't fit some of your expectation? why people are so afraid of giving away love, or receiving love?

next time if you haven't figured out if your date is going to be your bf or gf, don't tell me you're dating. you're not dating you're just getting to know a person and it's called 'making a friend or going out with a friend'. dating is only for 'serious' potential bf or gf you got what i mean?? i don't care your definition of dating. or you can say you're seeing a sex partner then i'd accept it.